As someone who spends many hours on social networking sites throughout the week, I thought it would be an interesting if I took two weeks off of Facebook, and wrote a piece about it. The following ran in the MBAA Newsletter on 3/9/2011, and gives the summary of my "social network-less" experiment.
A few weeks ago, I wrote about undertaking a “social network-less” experiment where I pledged to cut off all interaction with Facebook. My rules were simple, no logging in, no e-mail notifications of activity, and no app or bookmark buttons to tempt or trip me up. So, at 5:00pm on February 15th, I changed my profile picture, wrote a farewell status update, and temporarily revoked my citizenship to Zuckerberg nation. (By the way, did you know that if Facebook were a country, it would have the 3rd largest population in the world?)
I’ll admit, the first couple of days I found myself looking to habitually login at different parts of the day-- no surprise there. But what was interesting was how easy, even refreshing, it became to stay logged off. I definitely felt as though my social circle had shrunk, as I was limited to communicating with those whose numbers or e-mails I had. Yet, if something really important came up, I knew there was always a way to get in touch with somebody or vice versa.
When my two weeks expired, I didn’t rush to logon and binge on hundreds of posts. In fact, I actually waited a few hours until I had finished studying Business Law that night. Despite the short amount of time I was off, it felt strange logging in, as evidenced by my second status update I wrote that night:
“Kind of a surreal feeling now. It's as if I randomly ran into a close friend from high school that I hadn't spoken with in 6 years.”
I didn’t have a barrage of pokes [four], comments [two or three], missed “events” [only one] and friend requests [just two actually]. The first post I read from my news feed came from a former coworker and friend who wrote about getting stuck in an elevator downtown in a building I worked in with her --something crazy she definitely would’ve told me about in class the next night. It became clear to me what probably the biggest inherent value of Facebook is to us, something I had prior dubbed “pseudo-connectivity.”
You know the phenomenon, it’s about being able to run into that person you like, but just don’t see all the time, and automatically being able to ask about the trip they took, or new pet they got, or even congratulate them on getting engaged, all because it was something they shared via social media. That’s what I missed most while off of Facebook--the little (and sometimes big) moments that have brought us together as a generation.
So, as I write this, a week back “in the system,” the best lesson/advice I can give from the experience (especially post-Mardi Gras where some are looking to abstain from something for 40 days) is that disconnecting from something like Facebook, or Twitter, or your Crackberry for a pre-determined time is actually kind of refreshing, and sometimes even promoted by companies nowadays, due to our daily information overload. A short break, not total abandonment, can actually increase your productivity and help you get a better sense of focus.
At least, that’s what I read on Facebook.
At least, that’s what I read on Facebook.



